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I’d say you’re in crisis mode. Nag or no nag—you’re keeping this family together & doing all the work of two people in the marriage.

If it were me, I’d start setting some hard boundaries—things are going to change.

Adhd diagnosis would be my 1st step, along with marriage counseling—if you feel this is worth the investment.
Thyroid is another thing to look at, as most hormones start declining after 30’s and a lack of testosterone can REALLY affect energy levels for both men/women–I’d get yourself checked out too.

My heart goes out to you, because he sounds like just another “child” to look after & you are a person–you have needs too that are completely neglected & are MUCH MORE of the issue here, than whether you’re “momming” him or are nagging.

This is not good.

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