i totally agree with dr. eric and his opinion on visual routines. we were in the exact same situation and figured out it’s all about routines for us and our son. having clear morning routines was most helpful and saves us lots of time! we use the brili app for our son. we have set up individual routines for him that he follows through and is excited to get rewarded if he completed all his tasks on time. less nagging (unbelievable!), instead more positive vibes at home. i wish we had found it earlier, it would have saved us lots of energy.