Hm, thats tough! I kind of ‘get’ her behavior, I feel like I’ve been there too. To me feels like she doesn’t want to do some thing (fear of…) but once she’s in class, she has no choice but to accept the situation. Thats what happened to me anyway. Could you talk to her, ask your daughter what scares her about going to school? Maybe create a no judgement zone so she’ll feel safe talking about what’s bothering her? If she can’t seem to explain, is there anything in her playing school at home that might give you a clue as to what might be the problem?