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ILOVEHIM4EVER
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I’d alway’s Set a Reminder for my Date Plans.

Focus on Having Fun

ACCEPT his IMPERFECTIONS

PRACTICE COMPASSION
This is indispensable within any relationship. A person with ADHD often feels disappointed, overwhelmed, and frustrated. When a person with ADHD appears to be acting selfishly, it may be that he or she is feeling overwhelmed with their own thoughts. ADHD takes up a lot of mental and emotional bandwidth. It’s exhausting and often the ADHDer is struggling to get through the next task. Slow down, be compassionate, and refrain from judgment. Your ADHD loved one will respond lovingly to your kindness.