Im with ya on all of it. My son was in a similar situation where everyone on the bus was “roasting” each other and telling “your mama” jokes. My kid joined in and guess who got kicked off of the bus for 1 week, in school suspended for a day or 2? My son. No one else did. I don’t want to undermine the principal etc and say in from of my son how unfair i feel it is, etc but sometimes other interventions should happen instead of an immediate suspension etc. He definitely needs consequences for actions but some of these examples that we’ve dealt with need to be handled in other ways. Im still hanging on with ya!