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yorkville
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Hi,
I was in exactly the same situation at work. It was horrible…to be completely honest my coworkers were shallow and downright mean people. I agree with others that it’s futile to try to fit in with people you don’t even like….best to just be yourself as much as you can be….thing is, if you turtle..then you’re not being yourself either….don’t let them do that to you…I wish you didn’t have to bear that weight…it totally sucks!!! and I completely empathize with you…and wish you much…well, if it’s that nauseating to be around them and you inadveertently throw up…I’m just saying…better to target someone’s sitting next to you than the carpet which may be permanently stained….ok..maybe that was too sassy…either way, I wish you all the tolerance the universe can send your way!