I am also feeling totally confused and lost. I am at 39-year-old male with a wife and four beautiful children. I recently lost my job and I’m pretty sure it was results of my ADHD. I started taking Adderall and it is helping, I am so nervous and afraid to get another job and have the same thing happen again. I’m trying to figure out my strength‘s. I know I have them I want to utilize them to the best of my ability. Any help would be greatly appreciated. I just want to talk to somebody who is going through this.