Thank you for your advise. I completely agree with you on the cellphones. Our children (and even most adults) have become addicted. Social media has destroyed society. My son is 21 and society has changes in the five year difference between my children. Navigating parenting has become challenging. We really never had this issue with my son as cellphone became more prevalent as he entered high school compared to my daughter when it was up and coming by late elementary. Also, not much drama with boys as with girls. My husband and are also baffled s to house schools now allow kids to have them in class. But thank you again. I really didn’t want to make this so much a punishment and your advice has helped.