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sarah101
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Don’t feel bad about your choice everyone grieves different. I too cannot visit my father s grave just the thought disturbs me. They don’t understand our emotions are much stronger and when they only get upset for a few minutes can last days for us. If people don’t understand just ignore them you have too. If they think you are cold and uncaring, they will see in time that they you are the exact opposite.