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Poppy123
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I’m sorry to hear this and that you are so concerned. But ultimately it is her life she has chosen and all you can do is be there for her when she needs a shoulder to cry on or listen. My mum can’t do anything to help me with my ADHD boyfriend and I’ve left endless times and gone back to him. He might even have narcissistic traits so you’re daughter may want to research that which my boyfriend does and it helps me to understand his rudeness and not get so upset. I hope you can set yourself free from the heavy weight of the worry you are carrying. My mum blames her sleepless nights on me but I hate that she is that worried it is destroying her health. I may choose to leave for good one day if his behaviour doesn’t improve but I first need to build my confidence which is what I am doing via MelanieToniaEvans. xxx