I appreciate the suggestions.
Thanks all for taking the time.
It’s still just a list of things to do that I can’t do though.
If I did not have my children to care for I might be able to focus all energy on getting help one task at a time.
Not sure what I was hoping to find here but all this site seems to be for me is a list of tools and ideas I will never have the actual ability to use.
I give up.