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ADHDSpouse123
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Thanks kbj2017. I am so happy to hear from someone also suffering from ADHD because sometimes I find I lose perspective if it’s just my boyfriend telling me how it impacts him…I can forget that this is how ADHD is and make things too personal.

Thank you for your encouraging words. I feel like that is something I can try…I literally will try anything to make this work. I am also grateful for your reply because too many times I see people write ‘give up’. I feel like giving up sometimes, but mostly I just want to make this work. My boyfriend is a great person, just it’s so 50-50 between having a great time and it quickly switching to disruptive mode…so I’m continuously on edge.

Thanks again.