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Beware the restraining can lead to post traumatic stress disorder. He needs to stop being triggered and escalated- the do what i say in three prompts or I am going to lay my hands on you to lead you or carry you out of the room is not okay. By educational law they need to clear the classroom not your son if he is that escalated but usually the school escalates it buy lack of knowledge and understanding. My sons principle used to play drill Sargent and have power control trips with him and escalate him this is not okay in an education setting and do not let them tell you it is.
Collaborative problem solving or alternative conflict resolution buy Dr.Green is what works best with my son find out the issue and solve it do not give orders or spout demands at that point. When people do that they loose. They tried it with me and I was like you are pissing me off so I can only imagine how my son is feeling right now you are just luck I can control myself he does not have those skills yet, but he will just give us time to do the proper interventions.
Now am I saying it still never happens- his big blow ups- NO, but they are no different than most kids, but they are still more intense than 60 percent of kids these days.