Q: Why Doesn’t My Son Show Any Empathy?
Your teen with ADHD doesn’t seem to care when he hurts your feelings, and he won’t even try to show empathy. Is this a symptom of ADHD? Yes and no. What you’re seeing is actually weak perspective-taking skills — a common social learning challenge among kids with ADHD. Learn how to identify this problem and how to address it without shaming your child.
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Q: “I have come to the realization my son doesn’t show empathy. It seems like he doesn’t even want to try. How can I help him?”
A: “When someone has a lack of empathy, that means they don’t show remorse — and that is extremely serious. I have never met a child with ADHD who lacks empathy, but I have met tons of kids with ADHD who lack perspective-taking skills — that is understanding others’ thoughts and feelings, and also how they come across to others — because that is a social learning challenge associated with ADHD…”
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Ryan Wexelblatt, LCSW is the facilitator of the ADHD Dude Facebook Group and YouTube channel. Ryan specializes in working with males (ages 5-22) who present with ADHD, anxiety with ADHD, and learning differences; he is the one professional in the United States who specializes in teaching social cognitive skills to boys from a male perspective.