"I'm certain one of my students has ADD, but his parents refuse to hear it. What should I do?"
by
Karen Sunderhaft
Are you the first teacher to mention ADD to his parents? If so, you should know that it's going to be difficult to be the first messenger.
Things might go a bit more smoothly if you try to establish a relationship with them. Start by telling them about their child's talents and positive traits.
Then, ask questions: "What happens at home during homework time? Has your son forgotten to turn in homework in past grades?" Once the parents see you as a partner, they may be more receptive to your ideas. And remember - although you play a vital role in describing the student's behavior, only a doctor can diagnose ADD.