"How do I teach my 16-year-old son the right way to approach a girl he likes and is interested in? He is tall, handsome and a charmer, but he overwhelms them by the amount of attention he gives them (constant phone calling, for example). Plus, he will tell--within days--how much he likes her. As a result, it never takes long before the girl gives him the cold shoulder. He says he understands what I am telling about giving the girl some space and time to get to know him. But it all goes out the window when he starts pursuing someone."