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Giving a Parental Push

Q:

"My son has done nothing since graduating from high school last spring. I don’t want to push him, but based on my own ADD experience, I know that he might not take his next step without some outside pressure. What can I do?"

A:

Show your son you care by getting involved.

Pose questions that will help him think about his options and interests: “If you were to continue with your education, what would you like to study?” If he’s more inclined to begin working: “Would you prefer to work inside or outside, and why? Do you prefer working with people, or on your own?”

Brainstorm career choices with him, then help him prioritize his list. Offer to help him look for a job, or encourage him to sign up with a career counselor at a local university or community center. Just remember not to make any decisions for him.

A pioneer in the field of coaching people with Attention Deficit/Hyperactivity Disorder (ADHD), Ms. Maynard was instrumental in the development of The National Attention Deficit Disorder Association's Coaching Guidelines and a founding board member for the Institute for the Advancement of AD/HD Coaching (IAAC). She is a certified Master Practitioner of Neuro-Linguistic Programming (NLP) and utilizes a holistic health and wellness approach with her clients. Ms. Maynard lives in Washington, DC where she operates Catalytic Coaching. Sandy lectures internationally and is a regular contributor to ADDitude magazine.

3 Comments:

  • Posted by que_net - May 24 2008 @ 10:25 AM
    Parental Push
    This is surface level information that any diligent parent would do. This will not motivate a child that doesn't want to do anything.
  • Posted by que_net - May 24 2008 @ 10:25 AM
    Parental Push
    This is surface level information that any diligent parent would do. This will not motivate a child that doesn't want to do anything.
  • Posted by AusGirl - Mar 16 2008 @ 7:03 AM
    Parental Push
    This doesn't help one little bit with ADD/ADHD young adults who just refuse to do anything.
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