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Outgrowing ADHD

Q:

"Will my child need to take ADHD medication for the rest of his life?"

A:

I recently diagnosed eight-year-old Aidan with ADHD. When I met with his parents to explain the disorder, each time I described a symptom, his mother exclaimed, “That’s me!” or “I’ve been like that all my life, too.” At the end of the appointment, she asked me if she should be evaluated, as well.

As an adult, Aidan’s mother had jumped from job to job, and had difficulty meeting household demands. As a child, she had struggled through school, often getting into trouble and getting poor grades. After a thorough evaluation of her chronic and pervasive history of hyperactivity and distractibility, she was diagnosed by a psychiatrist who works with adults.

Aidan and his mother both started on medication. Aidan’s grades and behavior improved. His mom reported being more relaxed and efficient at work and at home. On a follow-up visit, she remarked, “If only I had been on medication as a child. I could have finished college, I could....” Then she paused: “Oh, my gosh, does this mean that Aidan will take medication for the rest of his life?”

Good question. The best answer I could give was, “Possibly.” Why can’t I be more specific? Didn’t she deserve a clearer answer?

Until the early 1990s, the medical community considered ADHD a “childhood disorder.” Believing that children “outgrew” the condition, physicians routinely took them off medication before high school. In many cases, however, the teens struggled socially and academically, making it clear that ADHD symptoms had not gone away. And, as greater efforts were made to educate parents about ADHD, more and more of them, like Aidan’s mother, began to recognize their own ADHD symptoms.

Clinically, we have seen that some individuals do show enough improvement after puberty that they no longer need medication. But the American Academy of Family Physicians reports that two-thirds of children with ADHD continue to grapple with the condition throughout adulthood.

How do I determine whether a particular child still needs medication? I advise taking children and adolescents off medication once a year. If the symptoms of hyperactivity, inattention, and/or impulsivity are no longer noticeable, they stay off. Should these behaviors return, medication should be restarted. This process teaches adolescents about the challenges ADHD presents in their lives, and how to determine themselves whether medication is needed in school, at home, with friends, and so on. Medication should be used whenever symptoms interfere with the demands and expectations of a specific task or activity. It is not necessarily needed all day, every day.

For example, a college student may learn that she benefits from an eight-hour capsule to cover morning and afternoon classes, but can be off medication while she relaxes, exercises, or socializes later in the day. On evenings when she needs to study, she can take a four-hour tablet at about 6 p.m. An adult may find that he needs medication at work but not at home, or for some social functions, but not others.

Will your child need medication for the rest of his life? Possibly. You can find out one year at a time. And, if medication is needed, you can teach him to use it for specific times and situations. In the future, I hope that fewer adults will tell me, “If only I had been on medication as a child....”

Larry Silver, M.D., is the author of Dr. Larry Silver's Advice to Parents on AD/HD and The Misunderstood Child: Understanding and Coping with Your Child's Learning Disabilities. He is also a clinical professor of psychiatry at Georgetown Medical Center in Washington, D.C.

1 Comments:

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    I have been reading the additude magazine for six months now. My husband and son have ADD. I find the articles both encouraging but more discouraging because I feel like every day is such a challenge in trying to achieve a successful marriage. I have become emotionally drained. Feeling like I am a parent to my children and husband, my children are much easier. My husband rarely reads these articles, other things are much more important like work or the newest purchase that needs to be researched. Acquiring things are exciting for him, maintaining them is non existent. He is financially successful. But not content. We never discuss anything for lack of his attention to listen to what I would like to share with him unless he is the one talking. He does not exercise. He does not sleep well. He has been taking concerta for 3 to 4 years now. Medication has helped along with a little awareness, we are not always getting in the car as a family all crying because of his inability to have patience like we used to. I miss enjoying him, the guy, the person when all the stuff is not in the way. My two children love and enjoy him, they also are challenged with his inability to be organized and lack of follow through. WE need therapy, we are getting some but I think we need to really focus more on how ADD influences our marriage, family and really whole life. Everything in my life is really wonderful except for the frustrating and empty relationship that I have with my husband. I really love him but its beginning to become more difficult to feel that way. We live in Fairfield, CT. Can you give me a few contacts?
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