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When Everyone Knows the 'Answer'

Q:

"As ADHD gets diagnosed more frequently and receives more media attention, all of a sudden, everyone seems to know the "answer" to my problems. What can I say to these people?"

Dr. Larry Silver specializes in treating children with attention deficit disorder (ADHD).
A:

If people frequently comment on your "problems," you might want to explore the possible reasons with your doctor. Your ADHD symptoms may not be properly treated.

If these people are simply butting in, you might say, "I appreciate your concerns. However, I am working with a competent medical professional and feel that I am in good hands."

Larry Silver, M.D., is the author of Dr. Larry Silver's Advice to Parents on AD/HD and The Misunderstood Child: Understanding and Coping with Your Child's Learning Disabilities. He is also a clinical professor of psychiatry at Georgetown Medical Center in Washington, D.C.

1 Comments:

  • Posted by Nivlong - Apr 22 2009 @ 5:12 AM
    Could be insecurity or excitement
    I'm guilty!

    I admit that I've been one of the people that know the (ADHD) "answer" to people's problems.

    It stems possibly from my own insecurities about ADHD or from being excited that I'm either offering (albeit unsolicited) help or possibly found like-minded people.

    I promised my therapist I'd cut it out, though. People will figure out their own lives and I have enough to deal with on my own.

    I've never seen a non-ADHDer suggest ADHD to someone else or myself, though. You'd think only the inattentive or impulsive would make such crude remarks such as "maybe you have ADHD?"

    If the "answer" is something like medication or therapy, I missed the point of this answer.

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