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Daytime Wetting - Medical or Psychological?

Q:

"My eight-year-old son takes Adderall. Lately, he has been wetting himself. We consulted a psychologist, made my son wear diapers and remind him constantly to use the bathroom. What can I do to break this pattern?"

Dr. Larry Silver specializes in treating children with attention deficit disorder (ADHD).
A:

You did not clarify if the daytime wetting started when he took Adderall. If so, stop the medication and see if the problem goes away. If it does not or it did not start with the use of Adderall, you have a different problem.

Does he also have nighttime wetting (enuresis)? Has he always been this way or did it start at age eight? When during the day does it occur? These are all important questions as we try to clarify if the problems are physical or psychological.

Has his family physician evaluated to rule out a medical problem? Do not jump to a behavioral approach until you are convinced that the problem is totally psychological. You have a serious problem. Shame does not work (diapers in school). First, check out the medical issues (The importance of this depends on my initial questions. Is this a chronic or a new problem?).

If there are no medical issues, it may be a maturational delay in bladder control. If so, there are interventions that might help. For example, setting up a plan in school and home for him to go to the bathroom every two or three hours. If this behavior is psychological, the most frequent cause is stress. If this is the cause, don't focus on the behavior but on the causes of the stress and what can be done to help. Take these problems seriously and explore all possibilities. The cause leads to the intervention.

Larry Silver, M.D., is the author of Dr. Larry Silver's Advice to Parents on AD/HD and The Misunderstood Child: Understanding and Coping with Your Child's Learning Disabilities. He is also a clinical professor of psychiatry at Georgetown Medical Center in Washington, D.C.

1 Comments:

  • Posted by docbets - Apr 14 2009 @ 7:19 PM
    Enuresis after reliability
    Daytime enuresis, Dr. Silver, ADDitude, 4-14-09 I know of a child who was using the toilet reliably by the age of three and a half. Kindergarten began and after a few months, she came home wet almost every day. And didn't mind. Nor did anyone at school say anything or embarrass her. A good thing. (Her mother did tell me she began to half-wish someone would tease her, if it would help.) In due time, the mom said she observed the child, in the midst of doing something, notice urine running down her leg, at which point she said, "Oh, I have to go pee." This was clear information that the signal from bladder to brain was not working. An exam, kidney and bladder ultrasound -- no physical problems detected. The pediatric specialist told them that some bladders develop later than others (overlooking the fact that hers had developed just fine), and suggested meds to delay the bladder emptying so she would have time to get to the bathroom. This would have been of no use since it failed to address the problem. The child thought up a solution. She asked her mother to get her one of those watches that beep every hour, and she said she would just go to the bathroom each time it beeped, and that would stop the wetting. It did. And all the times she ignored or didn't hear the "beep," her friend would offer to go down the hall to the bathroom with her. In one month's time, the problem was gone. It seems likely that the noisy bathroom, down the hall, seats too high, etcetera, contributed to her having ignored her body's sensations long enough to shut down the messages.
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