Hi, I have a fiance whom I'm engaged to for more than 3 years. He has ADHD and was diagnosed when he was young. The problem is, he never told me that he has it, I only learned it from his family members. I really want to support him, but he keeps pushing me away. He refused to get help and treatment as he sees nothing's wrong with him (that it is everybody else's problem if people cannot deal with his behaviour). I feel that it is frustrating sometimes because his mood and feeling are very unpredictable. One day he loves me, and the next day he hates me.

What should I do to support him? I tried to communicate with him but he kept pushing me away and told me not to contact him. I really don't know what's best to do. Do I stay away from him as told or do I maintain the communication and bear the bitterness of it? He also has suicide tendency which is worrying.

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