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9 Nov 2011 @ 10:18 AM
kbucpa Join Date: Wed 9th Nov 2011
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Career Decisions: The Frying Pan or the Fire???

I am trying to make some career path decisions and I am looking for advice. Background: I am a 41yo male with ADHD(& mild cyclical depression). I was diagnosed at 30. Thanks to the loving support of friends/family, meds, diet, exercise, and a lot of therapy I turned my life around. I am happily married with 3 kids and became a CPA. Situation: I had some growing pains as I learned to adjust to working in the 9-5 arena with my ADHD. In fact, it's still a work in progress. A year ago, I disclosed my condition to my manager. It was a great decision, mainly because it allows me the opportunity to openly discuss and explore methods to better manage my time/workload. This back and forth has greatly reduced my anxiety with deadlines, productivity, etc. Dilemma: As wonderful as it is to have a great boss who works with my issues, this is not a good job for me. It is redundant, detail oriented, and there are often slow periods. In addition, there is little opportunity for advancement and I am being paid less than I would make elsewhere. But I would hate to leave just to find myself in another position anxious and struggling to keep up where disclosure is not a realistic option.

Which brings me to the question. Which is better, a bad job with accommodations or taking a chance on the unknown? Any advice or comments are appreciated. Thanks! K

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13 Nov 2011 @ 1:12 AM Reply # 1
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since you know you still have some progress make

perhaps it makes sense for you to stay put for a while as you work on making improvements in your work life. Another thing to consider is that with the crappy economy, employers are expecting more and more of existing employees; something I have seen firsthand. You may move jobs only to find out that you have a taken a much more stressful job with a bigger work load which ends up aggravating your ADHD; and with a boss who does not understand. I would say work on improving your work skills and take your time if you decide to switch jobs, try not to be impulsive. :) Try to talk to people that already work for the businesses you are considering, have a prepared list of questions. What is the average work week like? Is overtime mandatory? How accomodating are the managers?

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