Hello all !! I hope that everyone is doing good.... Its been a while since I have been on , things in my life seem to be going pretty good :) The relationship between my hubby & I has been going really well , his temper has gotten soo much better , he has not been verbally abusive at all , these days we seem to be closer than ever , all tho his OCD really aggrovates my ADD & just down right stresses me out, but other than that we are doing good . Just recently a mile stone has come about in my family , my aunt Jane , which is my mom's oldest sister just turned 70 this past Wednesday, the day before my mom , my aunt Jane & my aunt Ruth all went out to eat lunch at Olive Garden just us girls to celabrate my aunt Jane's birthday , the lunch was absolutely awsome , it was the first time we were all in a room togerther since my grand mother passed away two yrs ago , it was soo nice to talk about the good ol times & to talk about what we are all doing now . The best thing is my aunt Ruth approves of my hubby, not that she didn't before, but truth of the matter is my aunt Ruth & I haven't been as close the last 10 yrs or so , then we were when I was younger , to say the least Tuesdays lunch helped mend those fences , I will be honest the rest of my family might not accept for like my hubby, but that doesn't matter to me, all that matters is that the three most imporant woman in my life do approve & accept him .

In other news - Our dog maggie has been under the weather the last month or so , apparently Jack Rusells are really prone to allergies , poor maggie last month did nothing but sneeze , cough & gag, we took her to the vet , got her a steroid shot to help with the allergies , along with her obbessive licking & bitting her nails , well now coughing, sneezing & gaging has stopped, but she is still chewing & bitting her nails , down to the nerve , she has had several nails break down the quick causing her alot of pain when she walks , hubby & took her to the groomer yesterday & accoding to our groomer, she looks to have some sort of fungal infection , which is causing her nails to go soft , soo first thing monday morning she is going back to the vet , hopefully it is only allergies & they will be able to give her some antibiotics , how ever if her bitting is neves, & she needs anxeity medication , well then that is going to be a different story . Now for the other bit of news , a little birdy friend of mine on facebook , shared with me some rather interesting info , apparently Leslie my bestfriend odf 20 yrs, the same friend of mine , whom is responsible for me having to give my son whom is now ten , up for adoption two yrs ago , is now in the exzact same postion , I was in two yrs ago, how ever this time , she might not get her kids back, given her histrory, according to my friend , DSS now has custdy of her kids . The funny thing about all of this, is that DSS took her kids into custdy one week after the two yr annoversery in which i was forced to give ,my son up for adoption . Now I do not wish anything bad on her or her kids , how ever I do firmly believe in karma , so there for I believe that because of all she did to me, lying about my husband, stating that he molested my son , knowing good & darn well his criminal record wa the only thing she could use to make me look bad, simply because I myself do have a record, so trying to make somthing stick again me in court, would not work , soo she figured if she pulled out all my hubby's dirty laundry that , that would be enough to make me look unfit . To say the least, it wasn't very nice of her to lie about my husband, just to get her own butt out of hot water , on top of that after all my mom & I did to help her , I certainly see god is trying to take care of busines & deal with somethings . Its not very nice to burn your bridges or do your friends dirty , because you never know when you might need that bridge or that friend .

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