1. How old is your son? It may be time for a heart to heart talk about him leveling with his father if he is sturdy enough and is not playing the two of you against each other. 2. Make an appointment with the Doctor so that this non-compliance can be documented in his chart. See if the Doctor is willing to confer with the father so that there is no doubt that the diagnosis is understood. Most importantly, see if the Doctor can provide a letter to the court that set the visitation, if you're at that stage, and whether he'd be willing to voluntarily testify if needed. 3. The father risks that his actions will be considered abusive and visitation restricted until he agrees to follow professional advice. If he doesn't, it may be time to talk to your lawyer. If the visitation was set by agreement, he needs to know you are re-thinking it. You have a legal duty as a parent to look out for the best interest of the child as well, and you may be entitled to attorney's fees to be paid by the father if it gets to court and the judge agrees with you. 4. Even if this is a power play by him, he may yield if he finds that you have support, or if he learns/decides that he is not considering the best interest and welfare of the child.

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I have had some of the same issues with Dad not onboard with our daughters ADHD/NLD. And thats exactly what had to be done. Figure out what it is that you need from the father to be supportive of your childs well being and take it to court. Show the court he has been a hinderance in the care and welfare of your son and ask the judge for a court order for him to comply in his care. But make sure you bring all the documentation you can get your hands on. Evaluations, doctors orders, school evaluations and letters, etc. He doesnt have to believe it to comply. But dont be surprised that you still dont have problems after the fact. There's usually more of an issue than just not believing it that causes the conflicts. Good Luck!

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