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This is a great question.
Over the past three years, since I first got diagnosed with ADHD at the ripe age of 46, I have done a lot of reading on organization as well.
First, I will say this: taking Concerta definitely helps my organization. It helps my motivation. It makes doing tedious tasks less intimidating. The meds help me carry out organization tasks that I already "know" I "should" do.
Second, being gentle on myself helps. The way this helps is that I now am realistic about what types of organization will work for me. I pick and choose better, and I'm very open-minded. I'll try a system to see how it works and then evaluate. Also, I now realize I will NEVER be as well organized as many other folks. Even at my best, there will still be glitches and gaps and problems, and I'm OK with that. I realize that the goal is to NOT get scared away from attacking life because I misplace things occasionally. (I just bought two bottles of lotion in the past 3 weeks, and I swear both have disappeared from my room. Where the heck could they have gone? ... Well, I probably threw them away in my hasty attempt to straighten up my living space.)
Routine can work for me, but it has to be simple routine ... Place my keys in the exact place each night. Try to pay attention whenever I'm at a counter and I take out my wallet (I've left many wallets behind in stores!).
One tip I can give is to not try to do too many things at once. I was at the bank a few months ago, and I had my wallet out, and a check out and I had to fill out a form and interact with a bank teller. Too much! ... I ended up leaving my wallet there. Thank God, a bank employee saw it and put it aside for me when I returned to get it.) But I thought about this experience and I realized I had too many things going on, and when I'm in situations like that, I really need to check for basics as I stand and as I leave. I'm constantly telling myself these days to "Put keys back in pocket." "Put wallet back in pocket (even if I'll have to get it out again in a minute.)"
I hope some of this helps. I think it's just trial and error. But I have to say the meds have really helped me as they keep me from being overwhelmed so easily. I still get overwhelmed but not nearly as often as before I started on the meds.
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