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16 Feb 2011 @ 9:50 PM
cherlin Join Date: Wed 16th Feb 2011
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My son was diagnosed with ADHD on 1/17/11

Hi, I am totally new with this topic. My son age 6 was diagnosed with ADHD and put on Focalin. He is in first grade, and being having a lot of behavior problems since he started school. He is very impulsive and defiant. This is being like a roaller coaster for me. I have tried everything with him (play therapy, 1,2,3, taking away important things for him, etc. ) The past 3 weeks he is being behaving much better in school. I haven't start the medication yet, I want to wait if his behavior keeps progressing without the need of med. I am really scare about giving him medication. I am working with the school to see if he needs special need classes, we have the first meeting with the schoold district in 15 days. I do not know what to do, I had planned to move back to my native country where his father is living at the moment but do not know what the school district might think if I take him out of the school a this moment. But it is for his own sake, I know he miss his dad, and this is a really hard situation for me to handle by myself with two kids. Maybe a change in environment might help him out. Please send me any advice you might have, I really need it. I do not know what to do.

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17 Feb 2011 @ 8:52 AM Reply # 1
Kels Join Date: Wed 2nd Feb 2011
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Its very hard. You want the best for your kid and you are trying hard and this is such heart breaking situation and a frustrating one. . Unfortunately schools can be helpful or hurtful. On their side they have 20 kids in their class to keep control of and its very hard to do that with a kid not sitting still running around. On our side if they know your child has this issue why do they not implement the things that can help lesson the situation instead of yelling at you and complaining to you. If he cant focus and needs to get up here and there let his sit in the back row and stand if he needs to and stretch. Put some music on. Try to help him by interacting not yelling. Not taking away recess which they really need to unwind. He as ADHD so taking him to a new environment will not change what he has and he will need to learn to deal with it as well as you do. But dealing with it alone is horrible. Ask yourself in the current situation is he connecting with anyone kid or teacher that would make it better for him to stay? Just don't give up and work with it, it wont be easy and the stress will be crazy. But your kid is worth it.

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