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6 Dec 2010 @ 3:41 AM
shypisces Join Date: Mon 6th Dec 2010
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Could this be Add/Adhd?

So here's a little about me (female 21 year old college student).

I have the hardest time paying attention in class, and often have to ask others about specific lecture details. However, I tend to do well on exams so therefore my parents think I'm just making it up.

I daydream. A LOT. No matter where I'm at. My brother gets irritated at me because he thinks I'm not observant enough of my surroundings.

Making conversation (even if it's just between me and one other person) is becoming more stressful because my mind is bouncing from one subject to the next...so I either have to ask them to repeat themselves or I tend to interrupt them because I finally reined my thoughts in and have to say my response quickly or I'll forget it. (This is causing me great embarrassment...I feel very stupid/rude most of the time...)

I'm an emotional person, so I get upset pretty easily. Even as a child I was very sensitive. If I'm given any sort of criticism I'll go over it constantly trying to figure out how I've failed (resulting in me feeling worthless-depressed).

I have many projects...but I never get around to finishing them. (my dad is like this)

I am often late to class (I get up on time...but somehow never make it to class when i should).

Loud noises bother me...so does the sound of someone chewing their food (It makes me irritated, even when I try to ignore it because I know it's not done on purpose)

So...does any of this sound like it could be ADD/adhd? I've done a little research, but I'm too nervous to ask a doctor about it. I'm afraid they would think I was making it up because I've waited until now to say something (and I do well in school). I've mentioned the possibility of ADD to my family, but they all pretty much tell me that I need to be more focused and essentially try to deal with it.

I've been trying to simply deal with it the best I can, but all of the finals, projects, and presentations that have been due recently have caused me untold amounts of stress and anxiety. Recently I started having head tremors, where it feels like my brain is shaking. I've read this can sometimes be due to stress (hopefully! going to doctor today) so all of the add stuff plus the new tremors is causing me to completely panic.

Thanks for any info/advice =] P.S—I’m sorry if it takes a few days for me to reply back…I never post on forums, so I’m liable to forget.

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14 Dec 2010 @ 10:57 PM Reply # 1
luv2dance Join Date: Wed 8th Dec 2010
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Sounds like it!

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14 Dec 2010 @ 10:59 PM Reply # 2
luv2dance Join Date: Wed 8th Dec 2010
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Sounds like it!

Many ppl way past your age are getting diagnosed of this & it has helped many of them tremendously but look for a Dr. that is actually qualified to help you get the proper diagnosis. Maybe after the fact(when you get the answer[s]), your family will realize what you've been struggling with all this time. I hope for the best for you! Angel

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12 Jan 2011 @ 3:23 PM Reply # 3
add2010sh Join Date: Mon 2nd Aug 2010
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sure sounds like it

Hi Angel, I have just been diagnosed with it just this past summer. I am 30 yo and in college taking hairstyling. I have been getting along with everyone or so I thought cause the instructor always tells me that everyone loves me being there. I am a quiet person but not shy. I don't start up trouble or cause any problems cause it is n ot me. I don't act mean, rude or disrespectful at school but at home I lose it when my kids get on my nerves over small stuff. So anyways I used to get one of the women in my class to pick me up for school so I don't have to get my husband to bring me in every morning well I gave her money to help her with the gas. I was not sure how much to give her so she either thought I should have gave her more or didn't want me to give her money for gas. Whatever it is it is just so stupid and I don't think I had done anything that would make her not want to talk to me . So I had to ask another girl in my class if she can pick me up for school which I thought she would do for another month but nope and she has been acting the same way too. And, I am wondering what have I done to them for them to stop replying my messages on Fb or to talk to me in class. I am so upset, frustrated, I fell like I am so low. So I was wondering if this is normal to feel this way as a person with ADD/ADHD? Just the other day I was thinking of dropping out of the course but not sure if that would be a smart or dumb idea. I hate to feel ignored by people. But I know if I were to do that then my in-laws would be jumping down my throat. I sometimes think I am Bipolar too. Because my brother in-law is also ADHD and Bipolar. I know Bipolar is linked in with ADD/ADHD, right? I just feel like I need to talk to a professional. There is times where I feel like I am going to snap at someone. Am I that complicated to be with? My husband thinks that I am being negative and that I am reading people the wrong way, cause his brother is like that.

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