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15 Oct 2010 @ 10:15 AM
ashwambro Join Date: Fri 5th Mar 2010
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I need a support group

Hi...I live in southern louisiana....wife, mom, and have career....but my deep dark secret is ADHD.....I take meds, which have helped me a whole lot.....but I need more.....i need support....

It would be great to find a group of people that go through similar things I go through....the stress I carry around, trying to find the solution, trying to make things less kaotic.

I have to admit that I need someone to tug me or push me to get things going, to try different strategies to conquer the ADHD monsters; and in return I'm happy to help others when I can, it makes me feel good to assist others and see them thrive.

Anyone out there have suggestions on finding others in your area with ADHD that would be willing to make acquaintances!

THANKS in advance!

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17 Oct 2010 @ 11:06 PM Reply # 1
justkeepinittogether Join Date: Sun 17th Oct 2010
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I hear you!

Your post could've been me! I can sense your pain and frustration like I do my own. It's been hard for me to reach out and find others who struggle like I do, but I finally got to the point that I think I have to in order to survive. I am literally "just keeping it together". My days are spent just trying to hold everything in place so it doesn't fall apart. I am exhausted and frustrated and just so tired of being on this journey alone. I am a wife of 19 years, (husband knows but doesn't really know what to do) mom of 3 great kids, and a full-time manager. I have a great life, but I am so miserable. I have finally opened up to my best friend about my ADHD struggles (she knew, but I didn't think she'd really get it....she does and has been wonderful!) and even leveled with my sister, who thankfully was also very supportive. I have learned to pick and choose who I share my struggles with, as many think of it as an excuse for poor performance, but I realized lately, I HAVE to seek my own support system from those who know this issue the best. So here I am. I have found the website TotallyADD.com to be both humorous and even enlightening, and have signed up there too, so that I can find more answers to this frustrating issue in my life. I have had to make some changes in my life to accommodate my ADD (I have a more inattentive type, but with internal hyper-ness that keeps the motor going 24-7!) I do take meds, and I'm on my way, but I too, feel the need to have support. I hope I can be of help or at least be a listening ear. Hang in there....one day at a time!

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21 Oct 2010 @ 12:30 AM Reply # 2
tickelme Join Date: Tue 3rd Aug 2010
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Amen and me too

Funnily enough I am from New Orleans and I am currently looking for a support group in Los Angeles, where I currently live. My advice is talk to people. The people of Southern Louisiana are warm and friendly. Ask questions and talk about your search for a group. You'll be hooked up in no time cheri. Or meetup.com baby

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8 Mar 2011 @ 1:23 PM Reply # 3
Gemini62 Join Date: Thu 20th Aug 2009
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Another Great Online Group

I am part of another really great online group, AdderWorld, http://adderworld.com. It's really like Facebook, a Social Network for people with ADHD/ADD. The founder, Bryan Hutchinson has ADD, and is a popular author, with a lot of upbeat counsel. We have a lot of fun there on the site, and there are a lot of different groups you can get into, Coaches available for counseling, blogging, and you can even decorate your own page. share photos, have your own blog,etc. Like I said, it's a lot like Facebook.

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9 Mar 2011 @ 9:50 AM Reply # 4
ashwambro Join Date: Fri 5th Mar 2010
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thanks gemini62

i signed up for a page - thanks for the info!

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14 Mar 2011 @ 10:06 PM Reply # 5
sarahyost Join Date: Mon 14th Mar 2011
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Not a loser

I totally get the secret life. I didn't hide that I had it. I hid that I was such a loser, or so I thought. When I figured out my loserdom was ADHD I felt so relieved. I wasn't stupid, lazy, an idiot or a loser. But I was ADHD in a major way.

I've never been in a support group but with the help of meds, changed behaviors and a complete revamping of my thought life, thanks to life coaching, yoga and meditation I have an enormous amount of peace about it all.

xo Sarah www.sarahwagneryost.com

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