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26 Aug 2010 @ 9:47 AM
allimee23 Join Date: Thu 26th Aug 2010
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Violent Tantrums at School?

I think I posted this in the wrong forum before, so I am sorry if youve read it already... Just had a question for you all. My son is 6 and taking 15mg of Focalin XR. The dose has obviously become too little for him as it is wearing off in 5 or 6 hours. School has only been back in for 3 weeks or so and I have had to be called to the school 4 times now because my son is having voilent tantrums, kicking, hitting, head butting, scratching etc. He is the sweetest child you have ever met. So loveable and a joy to be around. He is having these tantrums when they ask him to do something that he doesnt want to do i.e. - go to after school program, PE, music. The principle had pretty much made me aware that my child is spoiled which BTW i TOTALLY agree with. We have a Dr appointment tomorrow to re evaluate his medication and hopefully put him on something totally different. I HATE giving my child medication, Just like I am sure most of us parents do, but if we keep it up at this pace he will be kicked out of school in the 1st grade. I am not by any means blaming the tantrums on the medication or the lact of the medication working, just wondering if there are any other parents who have experienced anything like this? Also I'd like to hear what medications have worked best for your children. He focalin XR has worked great in the past, other than making him extremely shy and isolate around new people. I was told that he might need an antidepressant as well as a different ADHD medication. Someone please help me. I am extremely concerned for my childs well being, and do not want him to end up in some alternative school at 6 years old.

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28 Aug 2010 @ 9:44 AM Reply # 1
adhdmomma Join Date: Fri 4th Jun 2010
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is it time to change medications?

I am so sorry you are experiencing such problems right now. If your son wasn't having these outbursts before his current medication, it very well could be a side effect of a medication that just isn't right for him. Not all children can tolerate all medications. Reference this wonderful article by Larry Silver, M.D. from ADDitude Magazine, ADHD Medication Strategies: Avoiding Side Effects of ADHD Drugs: http://www.additudemag.com/adhd/article/957.html. Of course, you should always seek the advice of the prescribing doctor when you feel like you have experiencing trouble with prescriptions, and it sounds like you are doing just that. Medication trials can be extensive and daunting but you will figure it out with the help of your doctor. Hang in there!

Penny W., ADDitudemag.com & ADDConnect.com Community Moderator ADHD Momma to Luke, age 7 {a mom's view of ADHD} @ http://adhdmomma.blogspot.com

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29 Aug 2010 @ 1:09 AM Reply # 2
Didn'tSeeThisComing Join Date: Thu 22nd Jul 2010
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Oh yes! We've seen those tantrums.

I feel like we're the poster family for the Intuniv ads, but seriously, our son has been on Intuniv for three weeks now with zero meltdowns. See what your doctor thinks about it.

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1 Sep 2010 @ 8:35 AM Reply # 3
allimee23 Join Date: Thu 26th Aug 2010
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Thank you all

Hey, thanks for your reply. We took my son to the doctor on Friday and they changed his medication to Vyvanse 20mg. We havent had any tantrums so far, but I still see him getting frustrated. I can already see, after 3 days ,. the difference BUT I can also see that the medication is not enough. He was up to 20mg of Focalin XR and is now taking the lowest dose (20 mg) of Vyvanse. I think that 1 step up with the dose will be just the change we are looking for! So far Vyvanse has been wonderful for my husband. So we are looking forward to new beginnings with our son. Thanks for the information. It's always nice to know that you're not alone in this.

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12 Sep 2010 @ 7:33 AM Reply # 4
Giulia Join Date: Fri 16th Oct 2009
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some ideas to manage the tantrums

Ok, tantrums in AD/Hd is common. But meds don't do the whole job, only a part of it.

Is your son hypersensitive to sight/sound/frustration/pain/smell etc.... ? If he's hypersensitive to sight/sound/smell etc... work on it. Hypersensitivity is not doing comedy, it's so painful that you become easily very nervous.

If he's hypersensitive to frustration, punishing him will only increase the frustration, so the tantrum. Put him in a quit place, where he can't harm himself, and have a talk with him after. Ask how did he feel when doing so, and why he is not allowed to do so. Try to find solution to manage better a same or similar situation. For example, if he fought with the child because he was having a bully, explain to him that fighting will only worsen the situation and that if something like that happens, to go to tell an adult because he won't solve the problem by himself. If punishment increases the tantrum, don't cedate to the facility to punish him just to make a good impression to someone else, you know better your child than the mate's parents. If they don't like him, so be it : you won't choose an unefficient solution just to please them, you choose a solution which works for your child !

Ask the school to manage the situation like that. Increasing the meds is not the only response for frustration and tantrums, and meds work only in synergy with other behavior and environment management strategies.

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28 Sep 2010 @ 8:49 AM Reply # 5
kmgrant Join Date: Tue 31st Aug 2010
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tantrums at school

I am currently having a problem with my son having crying tantrums at school. We just changed him from Vyvanse back to Concerta which seems to have cut the edge. His main problem is getting involved in other kid's business and everything is unfair. Any ideas?

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