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Won't take pills?
Hi! I've taught a number of years in Special Ed classrooms that were designed for students with various severe behavioral issues that really affected their ability to function well in a regular classroom (other students safety was a prime consideration) . Many of them also had ADHD as one of their diagnoses.
Interestingly enough, the students that I taught all were in Grades 1 through 3 and it was a common complaint that we would hear from parents. "My child refuses to take their meds, says it tastes bad, spits it out......" We heard every excuse under the sun! One of the best was always given after we would call home to inquire if their child had been given medication on a particular day (behavior so out of hand just getting off the school bus and straight to attacking other students).
We would always take the wound up student aside and ask them how their morning had started out at home. Any problems/fights with siblings/parents? Did you have your medication? Invariably, we would get the truth from the student when they would proudly declare that they had refused to take their pill or had spit it out in Mom's face when she tried to give it to them.
Many of these kids already had meds at school for a lunch time dose so either the mom would request us to administer one of the pills right away so that the student's day could be put back on track. So we would happily oblige on the parent's instruction. Interestingly enough, not once did we get a refusal or a "I'm not going to take it!" from the kids. Meds administered, recorded, and the day was back on track for the student AND all the classmates having to deal with their peer.
As an ADHD adult (and teacher) and as the parent of an ADHD child, I've seen both sides of the school day for an unmedicated child when they're at home and after they've arrived at school. For some reason (maybe just to help us develop greater patience grins), the ADHD child knows how to push those buttons in the morning on each of us as parents. Once at school, they know the pill' button doesn't work with the teacher. They have it popped into their mouth and swallowed down before you can say "boo!"
Perhaps you can make arrangements at your school with the school nurse or administrators (however your school's manage meds) for the days where your child is in that "NO" mood. Believe it or not, we even used to discuss the 'whys' of the behavior with the kids to try and get them more on board with mom and dad at home.
They sure keep us busy, don't they? laughs
Calling home to verify the story, the mother's would often say "Oh! Did I forget again today?" or sometimes they would tell the truth and say that indeed, Little Johnny or Susie had absolutely refused to take their meds.
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