I am the father of a 10 year old boy who was found to be gifted at eight, which made some sense of his behaviours. As of a few months ago, he is now found to have ADHD with impulse control problems. It happens sometimes in the classroom and from time to time at home. The place it is really prevelant is on the ice in hockey. It usually is follows a similar pattern. If things are going well it seems to be to a lesser degree (the team is winning, he's scored a few goals etc.) However, when things are not in "his favour" , there is improper use of his stick and will get visibily upset about a call, or missed call by a referee. He will make a little trip look like it's the worst thing in the world at that time. He loves the game, is very talented but my concern is that we may have to take him away from hockey as it is a fast paced game and things happen during the game and if you are always acting on impulse (and you can't really help it) it makes for a long season for the player, teammates, coaches , fans etc. After some consultation, we have altered his diet somewhat and are just really starting to get a better idea of what's going on in his mind and body. My reward/punishment ideals have been changed as I gather more information. I'm just looking for any experiences/advice and iformation from others who may have gone through or are experiecing this right now. I do know there are other options than just hockey, but I would like him to continue on, however I realize that these reactions, which basically look like someone with poor sportsmanship and doesn't care at least for that moment in time about himself or his team, cannot continue. Thank you for your time.

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