hello tazx2, so sorry to hear you are in this situation! but at least you know that your son is doing ok on his medication, and with your love and patience, he'll succeed. about your husband, i can imagine how frustrating it must be for you living like this. i'd advice you to go talk to a psycologist and get your life sorted. they'll guide you if it's better for you to be on your own with your son or not. it's difficult to make this decision on your own, but if the husband is not helping, then maybe you will be better on your own, life has enough problems as it is!!

hope you find the best way to deal with this. take care xx

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Tell your husband enough is enough and then whatever your choice is do it. Idle threats are just that idle and he won't believe you if you tell Iam leaving and then don't. I would also make it clear you know aobut his MJ use and your feeling about. It isn't to your advantage to try to convince your husband about ADHD he just isn't in the position to hear about it and the yelling and fighting upsets you, him and your son. Some parents and grandparents see ADHD/ADD as a weakness or imperfection so unfortunately thinking this way is going to make it harder for You since they have their mind set this way. I would leave magazine like attitude around so he can pick it up maybe there will be a change in him if he doesn't have it shoved into face but just a litlle tickle instead. Good Luck but what ever you choose to do.just do it no idle threats

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Hi. Just thinking about what you said. Is there a hurry to educate your husband? Does he interfere with your boy's medical regimen? Smoking MJ often pushes an adder into a complex and fascinating maze of thoughts that can be very stimulating. It can be intriguing and bazaar, as if you are working on solving your own imaginary puzzle while you are creating it, simultaneously. To focus one's concentration on "real puzzles" which stimulate our interest, can be one of the most rewarding experiences of a proper diagnosis and effective medical therapy. Having been deprived of a functioning brain, turning on the switch that allows us "to see" for the first time in our lives, we discover pot can't touch this kind of exquisite high.

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