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Know what you are going through
I was diagnosed when I was 29 and it was devastating. At the same time it was the best thing that has happened to me. I went to a psychiatrist who specializes in ADHD and he has helped me understand who I am. I have also helped HIM understand who I am too.
There are many resources, (ADDITUDE magazine being the best) and also getting software that helps with organization. A program called Text-Aloud reads my emails to me and also my textbooks and online resources because I can't sit still long enough to read (could help you with work). And medication does help although I hate to admit that. It is a long hard journey but us ADHD'ers are made of tough stuff!
I guess the questions you need to ask yourself are...What are you going to do about it? Are you going to let it beat you or are you going to "flip it the bird" and make something of yourself?
I asked myself that same question and I decided to go back to school. I am going to graduate with honors in a year. A complete opposite to my failing grades in high school. I have had to LEARN HOW TO LEARN and how to ask for help (the latter means you have to swallow your pride).
Whenever I feel down...it helps to jump on here. Or I like to look at the lists of famous people with ADHD as inspiration.
Oh yeah...tell your boss. It is a legitimate disability and you have the same rights as other disabled people. Maybe s/he can help or give you accommodations.
good luck
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