I don't know what is like to have my husband walk out of me. However I can relate to the other of being the ADD partner and him being consider the "Normal ONe " Just remember it not just your ADD it takes two to make or break a relationship ; and if you are honest with yourself. It not just you was the problem. Many of our partners think they have to raise us. I hate that term ;but that what I say to my husband it not his job to raise me. I am adult and just like every human being I have my issues too. I found you to be very hurt with this and I wish I could say it will be okay I can't. It okay to cry rant and do what ever you need to do to cope. Don't take all the blame of this relationship. It is a partners job to love us, keep us safe and feel supportive of. You realized a year ago that you were ADD and took all the right steps to handle the situation. It just seemed your partner couldn't or wouldn't handle it. It not a fault of yours. If you can find out where he went and who he went with or not may help you understand what happen. Because you are right now hurt and proably very confused and unjustically took all the blame and now hate your ADD because you see it as a defect which it is not. I love my husband and he does love me; sometimes he gets so frustrated with me and frankly I do too. but he understands my ADD so it may be perfect but it works when the time is right you will walk with your head held high and love all the gifts that ADD does bring. Take care.

Quote