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I have ADD inattentive type. I was diagnosed and started with medications this year, at the age of 20. I guess my parents had big expectations for me, and I therefore tried out a LOT of different hobbies. Well, it's safe to say that it didn't go as they planned :P
My mother wanted me to learn how to play violin, so I played violin for 4 years. (WOW)
My father wanted me to learn karate, so i went to a karate course until I got the green belt.
My mother loved that I was so creative, so I went to a painting and drawing course.
I grew up with doing a lot of downhill skiing, snowboarding and swimming.
Throughout my childhood I also tried out these activities for 1 year or less: Handball, piano, swimming course..
It was terrible! One year I actually had one or two activities each day, and in the winter I went snowboarding/skiing each weekend. I never had time off to relax, and I didn't have medication. The worst activities I did was those my parents wanted me to learn(Violin and karate), and I didn't have the courrage to turn them down and say I didn't want to do those activities no more. At the end I just had to say that I just wanted a break from the activities and that I would start up again next year! That year I went from having one or two activities a day to having zero activities each day. Today I only do swimming, snowboarding/skiing, and creative stuff if I feel like doing some.
I actually learned an important lessom from this. Don't make your ADD/ADHD children do activities that you want them to do. Instead of doing courses with many other people, do either one on one courses or activities that don't need courses. Make sure your child gets enough challenges. Activities that creates adrenalinrush, or demand a lot of concentration is actually a good thing. I never felt more calm as young than when I did snowboarding/skiing and swimming. Keeping my breath and swimming under water is exellent therapy for me :)
And I have to tell you one more thing, I have wanted to learn how to play a piano for many many years, and as I mentioned I tried a one on one piano course one year when I was younger. I grew tired of it because I didn't get enough challenges, so I quit it. It was way too easy, I didn't even learn how to play a real song. But through the years I kept playing the piano on my own, and I actually learned more songs than ever. My little brother has played the piano for years now, and my mother often think it's my brother who plays the piano when it's actually me.
I'm not saying that karate is a bad idea for your child, it may be a whole other thing. Your kid is medicated and this means a great difference. Good luck! :)
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