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Honest mistake? Motivated by other factors?
I'm both a mental health therapist and the mom of 2 kids with AD/HD.
1) I've noticed that my Vanderbilt forms (new, downloaded from NICHQ) and some of the forms I've seen from school guidance counselors or even my clinic's child psychiatrist (xeroxed copies of older printed ones) have the rating scales flipped. On one set, the rating scale has 1 as low, on the other, 1 is high. When I either send forms with parents to give to teachers or mail them directly, I always include a quick note pointing out which end of the scale is which. Is it possible this is an honest mistake?
2) Understanding why the teacher is doing this might help to know what to do about it.
Teachers are justifiably worried about having too much to do, and 504s can be scary for them. When a child has a 504, that means the teacher has to work harder, but generally gets no more help to do so. (If a child qualifies for an IEP - which takes a lot and generally won't happen with just AD/HD, the teacher might have some outside help implementing it.) There could be any number of other reasons, as well.
It sounds like you already have a diagnosis, so there might be ways to cope with this without confronting the teacher. To monitor your child's progress, use other records, like grade reports, emails from the teacher about specifc problems, etc. To qualify for a 504, you can demonstrate the need in other ways - by documenting what your child is like off meds at home, for example.
Sometimes I fantasize about screaming at a teacher for either "my kids" at work or my actual kids at home, but I always try to calm down and figure out how I can work with the teacher. Time has taught me that if I can find some hook, any hook, to work with the teacher, it all goes better. Like the rest of us, sometimes they are overwhelmed how to best support kids with AD/HD. If you're a CHADD member, they have a great article in their member-only archives about "Why Teachers Resist - Understanding Teacher Attitudes about AD/HD."
Good luck!
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