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Glad to Help!
I'm so glad that helped you! I found a book in the University bookstore the other day:
College Confidence with ADD by Michael Sandler
I know most of the people in this group have younger children but this book was revolutionary to me and not just with respect to my academic life. There are alot of really useful tips for helping with relationships/time management/classes/finances etc. but most importantly, it shed light on WHY I learn and think the way I do. This understanding made all the difference.
Reading this book led me to this site. (The author periodically writes articles for the magazine)
I know it is such a struggle to be helpless when it comes to the hardships of others. Knowing more about ADD while I was growing up would have really helped my parents understand "my side" of the story. They were always supportive and did whatever they could to make sure I knew I was capable of doing whatever I wanted. Because I have had to reset my brain since coming to college, I have had an opportunity to understand what would have made things easier for me in elementary school and high school.
- focus on weaknesses EARLY -
Don't think that they'll get the multiplication tables later or that they will always have a calculator. This is a constant struggle for me. I wish I had a better understanding of the basics and this is where I tend to have problems now.
-get involved in sports-
Basketball was a lifesaver for me. My brain was constantly engaged and I was able to get rid of excess stress. When I was younger, team sports taught me alot about social interactions with others.
-be active in the learning process-
Know what's going on in school this week and maybe the important assignments, but make sure to keep a distance and allow them to get the work done themselves. By high school I was completely on my own with my school work and I don't know how I would have made it to college if I relied on my parents to check my assignment book and make sure they knew when all my important tests were.
Good luck with this journey!
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