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What to do while you wait
You may also want to check with your insurance company and your local CHADD chapter if there is one in your area (go to www.chadd.org and you can find the closest one by clicking on your state) and see if there are any other doctors qualified to diagnose and treat ADHD. In the meantime, I would get a list of the symptoms and write down at least 2 specific examples of each symptom that you have that is a problem for you. For example, someone may say that they frequently lose their car keys and this has caused them to be late for work numerous times. Or I lost several jobs because I was always late to work or because I was so disorganized. I can never finish a book or I start numerous projects but never seem to be able to follow through and finish them.
This will help the doctor with the diagnosis and by being prepared, you won't have to worry that you will forget what you wanted to say. You have more time to think about it before the visit and it should make things go smoother. Be sure to include examples from when you were a child as well. You want to establish that these symptoms are not something new but have been a problem your whole life. Some doctors will dismiss the symptoms if you say you can't concentrate by attributing it to your depression so that's one of the reasons you need to establish that this is an ongoing problem and not just another symptom of depression. If you happen to have any old report cards that include comments about your tendency to daydream, or that you don't always turn in your assignments or apply yourself, etc., that would be a good idea to bring those with you as well. And don't forget to mention that your child was diagnosed with ADHD.
Good luck,
Elaine
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