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3 Sep 2009 @ 3:58 PM
jaielle Join Date: Thu 3rd Sep 2009
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bedwetting

Bedwetting is the problem. My son is 11 years old and will be 12 years old in a few months. He is a very heavy sleeper. A freight car could go through his room and he'd sleep right through it. He has never had a sleep over due to the fact I do not want him to be embarrass from his peers that he still wets the bed.

I've been told by one medical doctor to wake him up in the middle of the night to bring him to the bathroom (sometimes it worked and sometimes it didn't - I don't have a full night's sleep). He also stated that he will grow out of it. Another medical doctor told me that I wasn't helping him by taking on the responsibility of waking him up during the night, so I stopped (nothing has changed). Another medical doctors said that he needs to drink a lot of water throughout the day to help exercise his stomach muscles (again, nothing has changed). I even tried to bribe him by offering a treat at the end of the week. If he was dry he could get an ice cream, small toy, etc., and if he wanted a bigger treat he could save up the weeks til the end of the month. The larger treats were like going to the movie of his choice, restaurant, etc. This worked for about 1 month then stopped.

I suppervise daily his liquid intake, especially carbinated beverages where he is allowed a small one a couple of times a week and it has to be before 7 p.m.

I'm confused and at a loss. What has worked for you???

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3 Sep 2009 @ 6:08 PM Reply # 1
Mommyof3 Join Date: Fri 12th Jun 2009
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this might help

Have you tried cutting off liquids before 7pm? Maybe bringing the time back to 6pm?. You had also mentioned using rewards. Did you use a chart to go with that? My son has ADHD and has really benefited from having a "visual" of his behaviors. This website has a lot of free charts that you can print from your computer. They even have some for bedwetting. http://www.freeprintablebehaviorcharts.com/theme_charts.htm That link goes directly the the page that has the chart for bedwetting. It might help if he has a visual of days he does and does not wet the bed. Maybe start with 3 or 4 dry nights a week and he gets a reward, then after a few weeks work up to 5 then 6 and finally all week. We used the charts to monitor my sons tantrums and after about 2 months of using the chart and reward system he was almost tantrum free. He still has them every now and then of course like any other 5 yr old, but there has been a dramatic improvement in his behavior.

I hope this helps! God Bless!

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