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18 Aug 2009 @ 8:37 PM
nursemomwife Join Date: Tue 18th Aug 2009
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Husband Needs Help to Write His Book

My husband has been trying to write a fictional novel, for which he has the whole story line in his head. He has been unsuccessful for 20 years to get the whole thing down on paper or computer because he either loses concentration, loses what he's written, or destroys what he's written because it's "not perfect". I have been trying to encourage him since his diagnoses of ADD 4 years ago, but nothing seems to work. He just turned 40 and I think until he's written the book, he will always feel a sense of frustration and unaccomplished. Any ideas?

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19 Aug 2009 @ 8:43 PM Reply # 1
Rae2009 Join Date: Wed 19th Aug 2009
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Writing tips for your husband

Here are two ways you can help him:

1) Break it down into 'do-able' bits. If someone writes one page a day, which doesn't seem that hard, then at the end of a year he'll have 365 pages. This is a novel!

2) Track down a copy of Anne Lamott's Bird By Bird, a book about how it's perfectly okay and normal to write what Lamott calls 'shi*y" first drafts. Your husband needs to understand that his novel won't be perfect. First drafts are usually horrid, even for those of us who write for a living. So he might as well just relax and have fun. You can't make a novel good, however, until you finish it. It's best to not revise, but just keep going, using that excitement of living in the moment in his story, of focusing on what he's writing now, not on what he's already written.

Good luck!

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