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ADHD Father at Home
Hi!
My husband is an ADHD man. We have lived together since April 2008 and had a baby in October 2008. Since we moved together he gave up more and more things he'd done in his own household. He doesn't have any control of his internet shopping. If he is at home, he only sits at his computer. Our little son knows: if daddy sits there, I have to rob to the bunny´s toilet, then daddy will recognize me. My husband can give his attention for 5 minutes to our baby, than he turns to his pc. The daily care for the baby, I do it, because our son screams and cries, if daddy will feed him or bring him to bed. Now my question: how can I disturb this wheel of shopping, internetting, ignoring, and wrong behavior to our son without screaming and bigger conflicts? I'm afraid that our son is learning that his daddy is only there for having fun. And I'm afraid that this behavior ruins our relationship...
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