Yes, so normal for us. You'll have to create some sort of structure to keep you on-task--alarms, calls from friends, whatever works for you.

Don't be discouraged. You'll find a way!

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what about meds then, i am getting some... according to most it reduces a lot the mess i am talking about.

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Idon't know what your medsdo for you but for me they just slow me down enogh for me to rationally think about things and to concentrate on one thing at a time (I'm on 2/30mg of adderal a day) But at first I thought the meds were going to fix it all boy was I wrong.I just started taking the meds with this outlook and didn't think about what I need to do myself,and before I new it my problems were building one on top of the other.I was confused,lonely,depressed and felt like I couldn't do anything right.One day I got laid off from work and I had to move in with my inlaws boy this is an eye opener for me I started seeing clearer and clearer for the first time that my situation wasn't going to get better unless I started trying harder for it to get better. Me and my wife could not talk to each other we argued about everything and it seemed like everyone was against me even my children man it was getting bad I was on the verge of divorce and being childless, and then something happened to me, well what i mean is something started happening to everyone else our lives were in turmoil inlaws,children,wife,everyone was so depressed and irritable so much that one day it was up to my to carry everyone around and so I did it was hard very hard for me and I didn't stay focused all the time but I done it I stayed possitive with all the negativity I accually stayed possitive for once and it was then when I realized that the meds can only do so much and I have to do the rest.Hope this helps.This is my first comment I have posted in here hopefully more to come.(P.S. It is only through my meds that i'm able to type this long and post a comment.)Thank You for your support signed by LEWIS BELL.

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