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25 Jun 2009 @ 11:15 AM
KristyLauren Join Date: Thu 25th Jun 2009
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Looking to Relate with Other ADHDers.

Hi, I am new here. I have yet to be diagnosis, but I am supposed to be going to the psychiatrist on July 13, I think. My family physician would not treat me.

I am not sure exactly what made the idea pop into my head that I might be ADHD, but when I was surfing the net (which I often do) I came across the symptoms, and I knew it was me. The symptoms were so me, I am almost not sure what my personality really is like. All the quirks I have may just be a mental health problem.

These are the symptoms I have been experiencing recently, though I know I had them all my life even to the point that they are some of my first memories.

1. I google every thought that pops into my head and spend only about an hour of my eight hour day doing work. Thus I found this site.

2. I have applied, been accepted, and attended 3 different graduate schools since 2006 and have yet to finish one class. (I am supposed to start again in August, which is a major reason why I am seeking help.)

3. I am so distracted by my racing thoughts that I have several time lapses during the day. For example, I am in a rush to get to work and while I am getting ready I start to daydream in the shower and spend 10 minutes more then I usually do in there. (I have been written up at work for tardiness and failure to complete tasks.)

4. I have not gone to work because I cannot find clean clothes in my piles of laundry.

5. When I finally decide to clean up a little I can never get finished because I discover something I was looking for that distracts me or I just get overwhelmed with the impossible disorganized mess.

6. I take things so literal, that sometimes I completely miss other people’s humor, though I know I have a sense of humor.

7. I flip out when my husband or my children ask me to do something while I am focused on something else. I also flip out just when people are talking while I am trying think or focus.

8. I have an “I’ll do it tomorrow” attitude about everything, even things I desire to do.

9. I am so incredibly forgetful about everything. For example, I have a therapy appt. every week once a week for one of my children. It is at 5:45pm, at 5:00pm when I get off of work I pack and get ready to go so I will be prepared for the appointment. At 5:30pm I have decided to set out my clothes for tomorrow so I can get ahead, then at 7:00pm I remember I am supposed to go to an appointment.

10. I have three children whom I love, but I attribute their conception to my poor pill taking skills.

I could go on and on, but how much of a post do you want to read. I spoke to my husband last night about thinking that I may be ADHD and I described the symptoms I read about online. I thought he was going to reject the idea, but I think agreed with the idea more than I did.

I want to try medication, but I don’t want to be a different person.

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6 Jul 2009 @ 4:37 PM Reply # 1
Erebus Join Date: Fri 5th Jun 2009
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Relating

I'm 58, recently diagnosed and been taking Ritalin for about 3 weeks. I don't think my personality has changed but I am definitely IN THE MOMENT now - it's easier to focus, to listen, to block out distractions, to stay on task and to walk away from conversations without worrying that I might have missed something important. Y'know, it's hard to describe clarity... You'll like it.

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7 Jul 2009 @ 11:05 AM Reply # 2
ADDitude Editor Join Date: Mon 12th Jan 2009
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Seek a Diagnosis

Before you start worrying about how ADHD medication will affect you, you should get an Accurate ADHD diagnosis. Ask around to see if anyone you know has a recommendation for a medical professional that might help you.

There are a wide variety of ADHD drugs out there. Side effects vary from person to person, but once you find the right ADHD medication, you should feel a whole lot better. It may take a little trial and error to get the dosage correct, so be patient and work closely with your doctor until you feel the way you always hoped you'd feel.

In the meantime, here is some reading that might help you prepare yourself.

Adult ADHD Diagnosis Information

ADHD Medication: Say No to Side Effects

Women and ADHD

Good luck, Dena

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7 Jul 2009 @ 11:14 PM Reply # 3
KristyLauren Join Date: Thu 25th Jun 2009
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Kristy

I went to a therapist yesterday, because I could not wait to be seen. The therapist works in the same office as the psychiatrist, who's appt has now been moved to the 16th. She completed a social history. Her preliminary diagnosis was depression, social anxiety disorder, OCD tendencies, and ADD tendencies. She stated that she would reserve her full judgement until she conferred with the psychiatrist.

I have no clue what to even think. 4 possible disorders makes me seem so psycho. All I want from therapy is to be able to keep my house clean, keep my affairs in order, and finish college. My mind is racing with the implications of 4 possible disorders. What makes it so weird is that when I told her my story, she pointed out how all of my behavioral oddities were symptoms. And after researching it extensively, I kind of agree with her. I totally did not know thce rehearsing, reliving, and repeating conversations in my head was a symptom of OCD. I spend about 30 minutes of every hour I am awake doing it, which I previously attributed it the the racing thoughts of ADD. Thanks for your replies. I will give an update after my psychiatrist visit.

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8 Jul 2009 @ 1:36 PM Reply # 4
meir Join Date: Wed 8th Jul 2009
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Understanding (not patronising)

Kristy I understand very well what you were going through.

I sent a message to Bryan Hutchinson just now about "my life" but I am not sure it went through. If you find it please look at it and see the similarities with your situation.

Excuse me if my English is not Shakespear English (it is not my Mother Language).

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11 Jul 2009 @ 12:41 PM Reply # 5
Knox Join Date: Sat 11th Jul 2009
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Supplements work Too & NO Side effects

your habits sound familiar; when I was diagnosed (Feb'09) it was like a huge wait was lifted and now have whole new life developing strategies for the behaviors. plus neurofeedback. NOT taking Ritalin; instead taking suplements l-pyroglutamic acid (or could substitute Piracetam); DMAE; Vit B Power Complex, Vit C, Naicin......they work! also TMG or SAMe help as well. If you have not found/read it yet Dr Amens' Book "Healing ADD" is very illuminating/helpful (he has 6 chilren & awife who are ADD); also K.Kelly & P. Ramundo's "You Mean I;m Not Lazy, Stupid, or Crazy?!" is very good as well[get the revised edition] be well & prosper

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