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I wish I could find other "adults" w/ ADD who are struggling wit
I'm struggling tremendously with it and have been for....well, forever. I'm 33 and started my first semester when I was 18. Since then, I have been in and out repeatedly....the only consistency with college is my inconsistency. I do fabulous for a semester and the next, I screw everything up completely. I thought the pattern was broken, but it apparently is not. The only difference is, this time I am determined to fix things and make it work.
Right now I am SO frustrated and disgusted with myself...I can't believe I did this again. I swore this time would be different. I've grown a lot since my last round of college, but apparently not enough. :-(
(I put adults in quotations because I am sooooo not what people think of when they think "adult".)
I'd absolutely love to talk to other people who understand what it's like to spend ...sometimes literally...ten X's the time and energy to accomplish the same tasks as the average student. People who know how it feels when you seem to spend your life running on ice, never quite getting traction.
I take meds, but the problem now is that I never learned the skills I needed to begin with. I cannot organize anything...not time or thoughts or space. Structure is impossible.
One good resource I'd like to share is a book called Learning Outside the Lines. It's probably the most helpful and understanding book I've read on adult ADD. (Now, if only I could start applying what it has taught me!) It really has some useful tips and it's written by 2 guys who somehow managed to graduate from Brown (to both of their surprise).
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