First Time Posting Hello, its my first time posting. This forum has been so helpful. I guess I'll just jump into the question. I have a guy friend (PV) that I really like. he is in his mid-30's. He can be such a sweet person, but also very confusing. I just found out by a friend of his that he is ADD or ADHD. But not on meds.I see PV often as we are in the same social circles. sometimes PV will go out of his way to say hello and compliment me or even try to get my attention... but at other times he goes out of his way to avoid me and he can be very rude. Once he told me that he just saw me as a friend, and a few months later confessed that he had feelings for me and was attracted...then right after that, he started distancing himself. When I confronted him, he confessed that his feelings towards women are "not consistent". yet when I saw him again, he was trying to get my attention. its crazy making. Is this part of his ADHD or something else? its very confusing and I am so exhausted from this roller coaster ride...it really hurts when he says mean things and then acts like nothing ever happened.

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