Cheating isn't necessarily a symptom of ADD. However, many adults, particularly women with ADHD, suffer from low self esteem, which may have a negative effect on relationships.

Relationships don't always come easy to adults with ADHD. It takes a lot of effort to make a good relationship work. You might appreciate this article: 10 Ways to Ruin a Good Relationship

Good luck, Dena

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It is true we need allot of stimulation in a relationship; but it not necessarily a symptom of ADHD. I have a male friend since I was 13 ; but we don't have a sexual relationship. We do hangout with each other; and yes my husband hates it. I won't give up any friend because they are so hard to find. I think you like the exhilarating feeling you get from the lying ; and that is what you are doing to your husband. I don't know how you can make your relationship at home spicy so you won't stray; but it would be to your advantage to do so. It may be cause we find the one we live with to be a task maker and not as fun loving as our other male friends ; however it is advised you should not tell him or her about the affair because it will only hurt them. . I would then break it off with my 'Boyfriend" ; however if this is a very long term relationship I would then tell my significant other and invite him to come out with us. I would also start inviting my significant out and have dates with him. I did that and if he doesn't wan to go out I go out without him. I hope you do find peace ; but remember it not always our ADHD that drives us to bad behavior . Good luck in finding what is really driving you. I am ADHD and like I said it doesn't always drives our behavior. If your relationship doesn't stimulate you may signal that it needs to be chnaged ; but it up to you figure how you want to change it

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