Hi there:

ADHD distractibility can definitely cause challenges in the love lives of adults with ADD. But it's important to address these problems and make changes to fix them before your relationship really suffers. I would recommend an open/honest conversation with your girlfriend and reading a few of ADDitude's best articles about adult ADD and sex...

Rediscovering Romance in Your ADHD Marriage

Focus on Love: Reduce Distractions In Your ADHD Marriage

How To Make Love to An ADDe

I hope this helps!

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Great, thanx Anni! Does anybody of you know whether there is a special training or coaching done by professionals dealing with the topic of ADHD and relationships? The articles at additute are very good to get an overview but is there any book with stategies and guidelines in order to improve one's relationship skills and to immerge (I don't know if this word fits in this place?!? g) into the topic? It doesn't matter how much it cost as long it is very good and free of any strange ideology... Thank you very much for your help and have a nice day ;-)

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I'm actually writing that book now, but it isn't published yet. Sigh. You can get some ideas from the forums at www.adhdmarriage.com (as long as you promise to keep coming back here, too!) :-)

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Great news! It would be very nice of you if you could send me an e-mail before the book will be released or published in the US. I'm interested in the topic and therefore I can promise you that I will buy this book no matter how expensive it will be. Although you can not stress all details in prerelease time, can you just give me some key topics of your book?!? The reason I am asking for this is, that I want to know whether you deal with things like "sexual deviance" or not. I'm still keen on getting scientific information with regard to this topic and I really spend a lot of money in order to get appropriate details. Unfortunately Germany is a development country with regard to empirical reasearch in the field of ADHD and therefore I am impatiently waiting for your book to be published. Okay, have a nice day and really thank you for this great information!

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I too am in the same situation. My girlfriend has her own business and OCD, it seems she often times has a difficult time relaxing or "getting in the mood". Today it's been almost 2 weeks since our last "night" together. We usually are able to get together at least once a week ( I would prefer more), but 2 weeks!?! Needles to say, I'm "frustrated".

She takes Wellbutrin twice daily at 150mg a pop, I'm wondering if that drug has some sort of side affect or is it possible that her birth control has whacked out her hormones to the point of low desire? Or it could be she is just tired and stressed out from work and has little desire...?

We've spoken about it several times, however its hard to talk about it in a fashion that doesn't come across as I'm making her out to have a problem. :(

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