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27 Mar 2009 @ 1:31 AM
3girls Join Date: Fri 27th Mar 2009
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Please Help Me Understand This New ADHD Diagnosis

I'm a mom of 3 girls ages 2, 6, and 17....I was just diag. a month ago and I'm confused because I've been battling depression and anxiety for over 6 years now. Then my therapist has this Ah Ha! Moment next thing you know I'm being tested and assessed and bingo this is it.

The funny thing is that I've always joked and said I am, because I have my oldest daughter who is ADHD but I never finished her testing or ever put her on any meds. At the time I assisted in her classroom a lot and saw that 1/3 of the kids were on Adhd meds, this is 2-3rd grade elementary. I said oh! no! Not my baby.....she's doing great and we've always recognized her LD and ADHD so I feel she done very well with handling it so far.

My thing is that I was beginning to think I was Bipolar so I went to the Dr. to figure it all out then went back into counseling and this is me an ADDer, I feel sad but also feel relieved that it's treatable, but damn I wonder what things would've been different had I known sooner. I'm focused on getting better mentally right now so please any advice I'd greatly appreciate or stories, and what about meds. does else on here have to take depression meds along with ADHD meds?....I feel alone and sad this never goes away, and it took things getting worse to figure this out. Now how do I begin to put me back together-----HELP ME fellow ADDers PLEASE

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27 Mar 2009 @ 11:24 AM Reply # 1
Anni Join Date: Thu 25th Oct 2007
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Hello 3girls:

Welcome to the ADDitude forums and congratulations on your diagnosis. I understand the mixture of sadness and relief that you must feel right now - regret mixed with 'OK, now what?!?' Your story is so familiar - even in this day and age, many many women are misdiagnosed with anxiety or depression because ADHD is still thought of a disorder for boys. So wrong.

The good news is that one big hurdle is over - diagnosis of adult ADD is tough, but critical if you want to get better. As for next steps, I would recommend reading this wonderful ADDitude archive about moving on past a diagnosis...

You've Got Adult ADHD -- Help Is Here!

ADDitude also has a whole online guide to Women & ADD that you might want to check out - lots of articles for moms there.

And, finally, you might want to join an ADHD support group to talk about how you're feeling, treatment tactics, etc.

I hope that helps!

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