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7 Feb 2009 @ 4:52 PM
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I think I'm going crazy!!!

I am a 25 year old mother of 2 and I think I am going crazy! I have had the depression diagnosis since 7th grade and last summer I had anxiety added to that! I just totally feel like I am going to snap! I am not the mother that I feel like I can be because I have ZERO patients, I'm yelling all the time and I still feel this "hopped up, buzz" all the time but my "anxiety" medication is not working! I am starting to think that I may have ADD/ADHD. I don't know where to go from here. My husband was just diagnosed last year but he had to go to this 4 hr. test that cost us $3,000! I can't do that because we can't afford the testing. Is this the only way that they diagnose ADD/ADHD? I just feel that If I don't get better or at least on the right path I am going to go crazy! There is just too much going on around me all the time that it gets me even more worked up. I have "dreams" of running away all by myself so I can be alone! It makes me so mad becasue I am not enjoying my life at all! Please help! Sorry this is just a vent but I don't know what to do!

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7 Feb 2009 @ 8:42 PM Reply # 1
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Can you buy driven to distraction

This book was recommended by my cousin before i was officially diagnosed. I didn't have to spend 3,000 for a test because I found my doctor in the back of the book ; and I had a good idea I was before I went in the docors office, if you feel you are based on these questions then you will know for sure it proably is a good chance you are. Just be really honest when answering these questions. Hope this helps

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7 Feb 2009 @ 8:43 PM Reply # 2
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Can you buy driven to distraction

This book was recommended by my cousin before i was officially diagnosed. I didn't have to spend 3,000 for a test because I found my doctor in the back of the book ; and I had a good idea I was before I went in the doctors office, if you feel you are based on these questions then you will know for sure it proably is a good chance you are. Just be really honest when answering these questions. Hope this helps

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7 Feb 2009 @ 8:43 PM Reply # 3
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Can you buy driven to distraction

This book was recommended by my cousin before i was officially diagnosed. I didn't have to spend 3,000 for a test because I found my doctor in the back of the book ; and I had a good idea I was before I went in the doctors office, if you feel you are based on these questions then you will know for sure it proably is a good chance you are. Just be really honest when answering these questions. Hope this helps

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7 Feb 2009 @ 8:43 PM Reply # 4
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Can you buy driven to distraction

This book was recommended by my cousin before i was officially diagnosed. I didn't have to spend 3,000 for a test because I found my doctor in the back of the book ; and I had a good idea I was before I went in the doctors office, if you feel you are based on these questions then you will know for sure it proably is a good chance you are. Just be really honest when answering these questions. Hope this helps

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7 Feb 2009 @ 8:43 PM Reply # 5
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Can you buy driven to distraction

This book was recommended by my cousin before i was officially diagnosed. I didn't have to spend 3,000 for a test because I found my doctor in the back of the book ; and I had a good idea I was before I went in the doctors office, if you feel you are based on these questions then you will know for sure it proably is a good chance you are. Just be really honest when answering these questions. Hope this helps

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7 Feb 2009 @ 8:43 PM Reply # 6
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Can you buy driven to distraction

This book was recommended by my cousin before i was officially diagnosed. I didn't have to spend 3,000 for a test because I found my doctor in the back of the book ; and I had a good idea I was before I went in the doctors office, if you feel you are based on these questions then you will know for sure it proably is a good chance you are. Just be really honest when answering these questions. Hope this helps

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7 Feb 2009 @ 8:43 PM Reply # 7
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Can you buy driven to distraction

This book was recommended by my cousin before i was officially diagnosed. I didn't have to spend 3,000 for a test because I found my doctor in the back of the book ; and I had a good idea I was before I went in the doctors office, if you feel you are based on these questions then you will know for sure it proably is a good chance you are. Just be really honest when answering these questions. Hope this helps

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7 Feb 2009 @ 8:43 PM Reply # 8
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Can you buy driven to distraction

This book was recommended by my cousin before i was officially diagnosed. I didn't have to spend 3,000 for a test because I found my doctor in the back of the book ; and I had a good idea I was before I went in the doctors office, if you feel you are based on these questions then you will know for sure it proably is a good chance you are. Just be really honest when answering these questions. Hope this helps

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7 Feb 2009 @ 8:43 PM Reply # 9
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Can you buy driven to distraction

This book was recommended by my cousin before i was officially diagnosed. I didn't have to spend 3,000 for a test because I found my doctor in the back of the book ; and I had a good idea I was before I went in the doctors office, if you feel you are based on these questions then you will know for sure it proably is a good chance you are. Just be really honest when answering these questions. Hope this helps

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7 Feb 2009 @ 8:43 PM Reply # 10
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Can you buy driven to distraction

This book was recommended by my cousin before i was officially diagnosed. I didn't have to spend 3,000 for a test because I found my doctor in the back of the book ; and I had a good idea I was before I went in the doctors office, if you feel you are based on these questions then you will know for sure it proably is a good chance you are. Just be really honest when answering these questions. Hope this helps

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7 Feb 2009 @ 8:43 PM Reply # 11
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Can you buy driven to distraction

This book was recommended by my cousin before i was officially diagnosed. I didn't have to spend 3,000 for a test because I found my doctor in the back of the book ; and I had a good idea I was before I went in the doctors office, if you feel you are based on these questions then you will know for sure it proably is a good chance you are. Just be really honest when answering these questions. Hope this helps

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7 Feb 2009 @ 8:44 PM Reply # 12
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Can you buy driven to distraction

This book was recommended by my cousin before i was officially diagnosed. I didn't have to spend 3,000 for a test because I found my doctor in the back of the book ; and I had a good idea I was before I went in the doctors office, if you feel you are based on these questions then you will know for sure it proably is a good chance you are. Just be really honest when answering these questions. Hope this helps

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13 Feb 2009 @ 4:30 PM Reply # 13
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It looks I went overboard too many of the same post

too many of same posting by me. This is a ADD moment

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13 Feb 2009 @ 11:19 PM Reply # 14
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25 Feb 2009 @ 12:28 PM Reply # 15
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re: I think I'm going crazy!!!

well I was tested by a psychiatrist, I'm pretty sure it wasn't $3000 dollars, although I do have health insurance, and I didn't do copay either since i'm a minor and I live with my parents. But it didn't take 4 hours either, it was just a quick 20 minute survey and I was diagnosed.

I suggest you try to find another method in regards to being tested, because I dont think it's worth $3000 dollars, I would rather be ADD and not be treated than pay that much money.

maybe you should just seek some counseling, they know more about ADD/ADHD and they can help with any problems you have anyways, it could just be stress that you need to vent out.

good luck.

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22 Apr 2009 @ 4:21 AM Reply # 16
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Which test?

I was recently diagnosed with ADHD. My health insurance covers mental care so my out-of-pocket costs were just the copays for visits. Where did your husband get tested and did insurance cover anything?

The diagnosis was based on several parts. I took the DSM-IV, which is a series of True/False questions like, "I'd like to become a race car driver" and "My mother is a good person." It was done on paper on site and is used to diagnose a variety of mental health conditions. It think it was 500 questions long and took me a good 2-3 hours to finish. Is that what your husband took? http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Diagnostic_and_Statistical_Manual_of_Mental_Disorders

I had a "take home" questionnaire (Hawthorne test, I believe) about inattentiveness and hyperactivity. There was a version for work, home, and me. I submitted two version: the one my wife filled out about me and my self-assessment.

There was an on-site history evaluation and finally a computer test to measure my ability to pay attention.

I doubt any single test I took was $3,000, but altogether and with therapy and drug treatment, I can see how the costs can add up, especially without insurance (or even with, if it's not covered).

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1 May 2009 @ 3:05 PM Reply # 17
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hang in there

findingmyway... Oh, I have been there. I am also a Mom with two kiddos. I have been diagnosed with depresssion/anxiety and now ADD. I had some really, really horrible days with my first child when she was 2, 3 & 4 and in some ways felt a huge relief when she was able to be at school all day. Just to give us both a break.

You should be able to go to a psychologist you trust and be able to talk with them to get a diagnoses. I went through lots of testing, as it sounds like your husband did too. And it was expensive, I agree. But, I was also diagnosed a few years before that by going into my therapist and talking it over, filling out a few self-questinairres and just with talking about it with him - he was able to write up a referral for treatment/medication to a psychiatrist.

One thing that you may want to try to get under control is the yelling. It's only erroding your body physically and mentally wearing you down. The doc that did my extensive ADD testing said that sometimes people with ADD are like "Adrenaline addicts" - they use things to stimulate their brain because it's not stimulated enough (things like yelling, or anxiety, etc...)

Please go and talk with a professional. It's not a fun life living like this, you deserve better and so do your kids. I realized once I stopped yelling so much at home, that everyone seemed to calm down - I could see the calmness in my child's eyes. It was all so worth it.

Currently I am taking Adderall XR, but I also take Fish Oil supplements (Omega3's) that seem to help take the edge of my anxiety off. I also take a multivitamin and plenty of vitamin D because I live in an area where we don't get much sun during the winter and that definitely contributes to my depression. Also, Exersize is always a great way to get your body to slow down, focus, and just feel better about life in general. You need to take care of yourself, so you can be good to your kids. Hang in there and go talk to somebody.

hugs

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