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26 Jan 2009 @ 2:23 PM
FrazzledRock Join Date: Thu 8th Jan 2009
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Aargh!

I've always gotten lost very easily, had trouble with coordination & some other issues. So I was recently evaluated for a visual spatial impairment. The testing came back with ADHD. Whether that's in addition to a visual spatial impairment or causing it is still not quite clear. I've been trying to find someone who will work with me on this & accept my insurance. It is sooo frustrating!!

And another thing which is really frustrating is the ADHD skeptics. One relative who gave me a hard time about it is a recovering alcoholic with depression. How would she like it if I told her there were no such thing as those conditions and she's just a sad drunk! Don't worry, I didn't, I managed to refrain from saying it, just thought it.

On the bright side, a lot of things that I thought were just "quirks" make a lot more sense now. I'm in my early 40s and it looks like I was doing a lot of compensating without realizing what I was compensating for. I'm perpetually early because I have trouble gauging time and don't want to be late. I write down instructions when I drive as a back up for my GPS. I'm choosing to look at it as now that I now what I'm dealing with, I can take even more effective steps to manage it.

Does anyone else compensate by being writing everything down/on electronic calendars or organizing their e-mails to hold information? I do and oddly enough, sometimes people look to me to keep order of these things! LOL :)

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27 Jan 2009 @ 9:37 AM Reply # 1
Scooter919 Join Date: Wed 14th Jan 2009
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Yep...

I have always been directionally challenged in a car. I grew up in the country, and oddly enough I do not have that problem walking in the woods. My medication helps a lot, and my GPS is invaluable. If it doesn't tell me exactly how to get there, it will at least tell me where I am. I love my notes and lists too, until I lose them! I have three great tools I use at work; a white board, sticky notes, and MS Outlook. Outlook is good because it has a calander and a to-do list. I can set alarms on both, which help remind me through the day of what I need to do. Best of all, it is hard to lose my desktop computer!

One of the biggest benefits I have received from being diagnosed with ADD is that I now understand WHY I have these problems. I used to be incredibly frustrated when I'd lose something, forget something, get lost, etc. Part of the frustration was because I was in the situation, the other part was because I couldn't understand how I got there.

Now that I know, these things still happen on occasion, but I am at least able to laugh it off and move on.

Good luck, and be patient. I know it's frustrating, but don't worry about what other think. I was told early on to think of ADD like I would diabetes:

1) Knowing you have it doesn't cure you of it. 2) Some people can manage it by making lifestyle changes, and some people need a combination of medication and lifestyle changes. 3) You didn't choose to have it, and you can't will it to go away.

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27 Jan 2009 @ 9:37 AM Reply # 2
Scooter919 Join Date: Wed 14th Jan 2009
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